Grief in 2016

Wow, I can’t believe it’s December 21st already! Where did the fucking year go? And why was it such a shitshow?? Some interesting things have happened in our lives this year, too. My husband Jim is transgender and would like to be called Danifae, and she uses female pronouns now. She came out to me… Read More Grief in 2016

I’m back

Well I did it. I finally got rid of the majority of baby stuff. I kept the crib, some blankets and clothing. I guess I’ll probably keep them forever. I just couldn’t bear to part with them. We got our Molly Bear a few months ago. We love her┬áso much! My arms got sore the… Read More I’m back

it’s hard

This shit is so fucking hard! I’ve started going through and getting rid of some baby stuff. What I couldn’t donate to Goodwill I asked my inlaws to donate to their church or something-but they hung on to it. They think we will change our minds or get pregnant without planning it. This is honestly… Read More it’s hard

bitter

  Here is an anonymous post from a fellow loss mom who lost her son @ 35 weeks in November-she didn’t know she was pregnant-she thought she may have been miscarrying and was shocked to find out her baby was nearly full term. She is still a mother, and she needs support.   I’m really… Read More bitter