Grief in 2016

Wow, I can’t believe it’s December 21st already! Where did the fucking year go? And why was it such a shitshow?? Some interesting things have happened in our lives this year, too. My husband Jim is transgender and would like to be called Danifae, and she uses female pronouns now. She came out to me… Read More Grief in 2016

it’s my birthday

Originally posted on Losing Grace:
birthday cake Hey everyone sorry I haven’t posted in a while I’m still healing from the surgery. So today is my 33rd birthday. It is bittersweet because I had an awesome day and did everything I wanted to, yet Grace isn’t here to celebrate with me. She would be nearly…

for my mom

Originally posted on Losing Grace:
it is Mother’s Day and I am a childless mother. Grace is gone and today will be hard for me. Jim is taking me out on a date so that will be nice. I wanted to do a special post for my mom. TEN REASONS I LOVE MY MOM 10.…

the sun also rises

Originally posted on Losing Grace:
I am very excited, my mom called me tonight! We had a pretty decent conversation. She talked about how she felt wounded, and I told her that was the last thing I ever wanted to do. I also said that it’s not about hurting her or blaming her, rather it’s…


Originally posted on Losing Grace:
I had a daughter, her name was Grace she had the most beautiful face. for nine months I carried her inside, until the awful day she died. My baby girl never breathed the open air I feel so lost and it’s so unfair. when she was born she was already…